I called to see what she might
like tomorrow night for a
dinner I planned on making for us
She responded by telling me
she doesn't want to come back home yet
Why did I set myself up to be crushed?
I guess the question has been
decided for me...
I feel so pathetic and sad.
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I am so sorry about this. I know it's hard moving on, but it is probably the only thing you can do at this point. Don't destroy who you are as a person for someone else, or someone else's love. Be strong and hang in there.
It's not always a case of setting ourselves up for the pain but sometimes we just need to know we tried everything, and now you have. Maybe it is time for you now to think about YOU. Is there something you want to do or a place you long to go that maybe you couldn't when you were with HER? Be kind to you and try to know that things will be better than you imagine someday soon.
To hear this makes me sad. I was hoping almost as you were that things would move forward. Caroline and The Other Me are right. Take care of YOU. Hang in there.
{{{Sublime}}}
Oh Sublime, I'm sorry. {{{ }}}
I agree with Bent that Caroline and the Other Me are right. Hang in there.
I'm sorry to hear that Sublime. I agree with all those above me. The only person that you have control over is you, so take this time to take care of yourself.
Know that we all support you and you will be fine with or without HER.
sublime, i am so sad that you are going thru this...i was so hopeful that things were gonna work out...and that's not to say that they won't...just not yet...please remember to take care of you and know that we're all here for you...
peace...
S..
Sometimes the most banal is what's called for.
T G I F
STB
I hope you are doing OK.
((((Sublime))))
To give her the power to ruin you
is to say you are nothing without her.
Show with your ability to be silent that you will survive this.
Do not let her manipulate your
life in this way.
Back away and watch what happens. This will tell you much about her motivation.
Does she want to be chased, needed, or left alone honestly....
I wish this hurt was not yours
to live through.
Most of us know this same pain.
Find strength in knowing you are
not alone.
Hugs, Annie
Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you tonight and hoping that you're doing okay.
Some days are harder than others.
Wondering when the pain will end?
Place all these warm thoughts into your heart and know I am with you today.
Just popped in to see how you were today..hope you're OK!
Thinking of you today.
Take care
You're not pathetic! You got hurt, ok? That's the last thing you need to be hitting yourself over the head with. If you need to be sad and listen to sad music and think sad thoughts, then do it! But that's not pathetic.
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